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Safe Exit: ground yourself in 90 seconds when overwhelmed

When a practice becomes too much or the day has shaken you: open your eyes, look around, feel your feet. A calm, ninety-second way back.

Meditation and breathing practices usually calm us, but sometimes unexpected feelings, memories or dizziness come up. Safe Exit is designed for those moments: it asks you to open your eyes and brings your attention to what you can see and hear around you, to the ground under your feet and the seat beneath you. In SendenSana's deeper practices it can be opened at any moment with an "I feel overwhelmed" button.

How to use it

  1. Open your eyes and look around the room.
  2. Notice five things you can see and four sounds you can hear, one by one.
  3. Press your feet into the floor and feel the seat holding you.
  4. Do not try to change your breath; let it be as it is, and place a hand on your chest or belly if you like.
  5. When you are ready, carry on or stop the practice; stopping is a practice too.

When does it help?

Use it when you feel overwhelmed during a breathing or meditation practice, when anxiety rises, after bad news or a difficult conversation, or when you wake from sleep in fear.

Background and research

Grounding and orienting techniques are widely used in trauma-informed care and somatic approaches such as Peter Levine's Somatic Experiencing; the "5-4-3-2-1" senses exercise belongs to the same family. A review of 83 studies found that about 8 per cent of people who meditate report an unwanted experience such as increased anxiety or dissociation (Farias et al., 2020). That is why Safe Exit exists: a responsible companion to deeper practices.

Safety

Safe Exit is not a crisis intervention. If you have thoughts of harming yourself or are in danger, call your local emergency number now; you can find helplines around the world at findahelpline.com. If these feelings keep returning, talk to a mental health professional.

Frequently asked questions

When should I use it?
As soon as a practice starts to feel disturbing. There is no need to push through to the end; stopping is part of the path too.
What if 90 seconds is not enough?
You can start the sequence again, or simply stay with the "feel your feet" step. If the anxiety continues, talking to someone helps.
Why am I asked to open my eyes?
Opening your eyes and naming your surroundings moves attention from the inner world to the present setting; this makes it easier for the mind to say "I am here, I am safe".

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